Holding the Bonds That Matter Most: CASA Chris on Advocating for Siblings
This National Sibling Day, we are reminded just how powerful sibling connections can be, especially for children navigating the uncertainty of foster care. To one CASA Volunteer, that truth became clear right away.
Chris is brand new to her role as a Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) Volunteer, but she did not shy away from complexity. Instead, she stepped into a case with many layers and a group of siblings living in three separate homes.
“I originally understood the case to be about 3 sisters. That resonated with me because of my own close connection with my 3 sisters. They are a huge part of who I am,” Chris shared.
In addition to the three girls in care, a 1-year-old and 7-year-old twins, there are two more siblings, ages 2 and 5, who have already been adopted by their aunt. “Discovering there are 2 additional siblings was a precious gift. The added complexity really highlighted for me how much I have to learn and what a need there is for children in the system as well as opportunity to get involved,” shares Chris. While the remaining siblings in care are currently placed in separate homes, there is growing hope. The twins are preparing to begin visits with their siblings and their aunt, who is being considered as a potential placement for them.
The possibility of the siblings living together in one home is exactly what CASA volunteers advocate for every day. Chris shared, “Children in foster care have had their worlds turned upside down. Siblings can provide a sense of connection, belonging, shared experience and comfort that is unique and a very basic need we all feel.”
Right now, Chris is helping ensure those connections are not lost. Alongside the courts and the child welfare team, she is advocating for consistent sibling visits and opportunities to strengthen those bonds. Even when everything else changes, sibling relationships can be a steady source of love and identity.
Despite being new, Chris has embraced her role with clarity and purpose. “My role in this case is the same as it is for all CASAs and every case. First and foremost, it is to be in the childrens’ corner, to speak up for them, and to do my best to ensure they have what they need to thrive just like all children deserve.”
Her words reflect something we see every day. Even the most complex cases come down to something simple. Children need someone in their corner.
For Chris, becoming a CASA was always about that purpose. “I was drawn to CASA because children are awesome and our future. I wanted to be of service and can’t think of anyone more deserving than our children.”
This National Sibling Day, we celebrate advocates like Chris who understand that keeping siblings connected is essential. When children are able to hold onto each other, they hold onto a piece of home. And with the right advocacy, they can find their way back to it together.